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Re: OT: PLEASE HELP!!!
Posted by FrozenSaab [Email] (more from FrozenSaab) on Thu, 28 Nov 2002 14:33:28
In Reply to: OT: PLEASE HELP!!!, Redmilk, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 14:06:19
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Hey redmilk,
Sorry to hear about your problem here, and I hope that I can offer some advice. I think I'm at a similar age to you, and have been dating the same girl for 4.5 years, so maybe I can relate to your situation...
About two years ago, I pretty much did what Lissette did to you. Although it wasn't inspired by another person entering my life, it was still something I felt that I needed to do. Anyway, there was no apparent motivation for what I did...I only felt that I should explore other relationships, just to be reinforce any sense of happiness that I thought I had (or didn't) have.
So, after doing that, I felt absolutely terrible. The next day, I had realized that I had made a terrible mistake, and that Laura (my Lissette) was indeed the right person for me. Once I realized this, I did everything I could to get her back (which I eventually did too), and things have been great ever since.
Anyhow, the moral of my butchered story is this: if the relationship is really worth saving, then she will want to patch things up. Maybe she had to convince herself that you are in fact the right person for her. It's hard to try to figure out someone's motivation though. It could also be an age thing (I've heard of many people doing similar things in their 20's, which is the age group that I think you are referring to). I wouldn't do anything rash, such as hanging up on her, or any other mean thing. It was the kind, sensitive side of you that made the relationship last 5 years...there is no need to change that now.
I hope that I have helped a little...and I hope you feel better. If you need more advice, don't hesitate to e-mail: markamelo@hotmail.com
Cheers,
Mark
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Posts in this Thread:
- OT: PLEASE HELP!!!, Redmilk, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 14:06:19
- An update, Redmilk, Sat, 30 Nov 2002 01:25:21
- Are you kidding? (Tough love on the way ...), j-ro, Fri, 29 Nov 2002 14:33:56
- 'Talking things out here on the BB is one way of>, Traffic Shark
, Fri, 29 Nov 2002 12:24:30 - Re: OT: PLEASE HELP!!!, Chad, Fri, 29 Nov 2002 11:11:01
- Don't play games and don't use psycology...., Richard P., Fri, 29 Nov 2002 10:05:00
- Here be the solution, Sir Mix-a-lot, Fri, 29 Nov 2002 10:01:25
- Something to consider, Daanimal900, Fri, 29 Nov 2002 03:21:57
- It hurts me a bit to read this . . ., MJP, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 23:50:08
- Re: OT: PLEASE HELP!!!, Erik, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 19:25:44
- General Theme..., FrozenSaab, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 16:46:39
- Its your call man..., bRAD, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 16:44:00
- Keep them coming, this helps. thanks. nm, Redmilk, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 16:07:03
- Yes, I agree that the reach and withdraw that you talk, KB88900T, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 15:54:35
- Female point of view encouraged too! nm, redmilk, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 15:15:58
- Been there, done it...> (long), StanleyB, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 14:44:39
- Re: OT: PLEASE HELP!!!, FrozenSaab, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 14:33:28 <-- Viewing This Message
- My advise ..., J, Thu, 28 Nov 2002 14:31:48
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